She Dances With Love asked:


The state of your heart dictates whether you harbor a grudge or give grace, seek self-pity or seek Christ, drink human misery or taste God’s mercy.
Grudge is one of those words that defines itself. Its very sound betrays its meaning.
Say it slowly: “Grr-uuuud-ge.”
It starts with a growl. “Grr …” Like a bear with bad breath coming out of hibernation or a mangy mongrel defending his bone in an alley. “Grrr …”
Remove a GR from the word grudge and replace it with SL and you have the junk that grudge bearers trudge through. Sludge. Black, thick, ankle-deep resentment that steals the bounce from the step. No joyful skips through the meadows. No healthy hikes up the mountain. Just day after day of walking into the storm, shoulders bent against the wind, and feet dragging through all the muck life has delivered.
Is this the way you are coping with your hurts? Are you allowing your hurts to turn into hates? If so, ask yourself: Is it working? Has your hatred done you any good? Has your resentment brought you any relief, any peace? Has it granted you any joy?
Let’s say you get even. Let’s say you get him back. Let’s say she gets what she deserves. Let’s say your fantasy of fury runs its ferocious course and you return all your pain with interest. Imagine yourself standing over the corpse of the one you have hated. Will you now be free?
Revenge is bad. But the worst part of all is that, without forgiveness, bitterness is all that is left.

The state of your heart dictates whether you harbor a grudge or give grace, seek self-pity or seek Christ, drink human misery or taste God’s mercy.

No wonder, then, the wise man begs, “Above all else, guard your heart.”

David’s prayer should be ours: “Create in me a pure heart, O God.”

What do you think?
Cayennsen ~ welcome home!
Cataliz…welcome back:)
Missmama…God bless!
Christian..you are so right…we need to forgive!
Christian..you are so right…we need to forgive!
Jesus Freak…love you! Grr…(((bear)))!
Thanks Cooky54…we do need to be washed clean…
Truth Seeker…we need the Spirit of the Lord to be overcomers! Amen
It is so importantfor us all to keep our hearts clear and pure from all that would devour us, from the manipulations from all the forces of darkeness. I thank everyone who has answered..You all gave such effort and great answers…we must guard our hearts…from all things that will try to entice, lie, to our spirits. David fell, and great was his sin. And his children too were robbed of so much . Our choices do not only hurt us but many others. Jesus Christ,our Lord has given us a great commision…wo we must be as wise as a serpent and as harmless as a dove! And stand on guard for all that Jesus wants to build…God bless you all for the answers…you all areso special to the Lord. For those who starred this question…but didn’t answer God bless you too.

Most doctors will tell you they have seen and heard about most diseases, regardless of how gross, embarrassing, or funny they may seem. Some people have no issue discussing medical problems with their doctors. However, in many cases, a person may feel uncomfortable going into such detailed descriptions about what is happening to their body if they feel awkward about the problem. If they are suffering from headaches or chest pains, they may march right into the doctor’s office and announce their symptoms without a second thought. However, if their problem involves bathroom habits, stomach disorders, or problems in the bedroom, they may feel as if they do not want to discuss it, even with a medical professional. Those who are especially sensitive may even be embarrassed about problems like bad breath or body odor. Some people may need to visit a podiatrist for their foot pain or bunion problems. Even if you feel awkward speaking with someone about these problems, you will fare better if you bring it up and deal with it. There may be treatment available.

The other difficult problem some people have is discussing their problem with those they love. Medical problems are personal, but if you are living with someone, sharing a bed or bathroom with someone, or relying on someone to cook your meals and take care of you, it may be necessary to be aware of the problem. If your medical issue can lead to a serious occurrence, they should know what to expect should something happen. If what you are experiencing is contagious, they need to know so they can protect themselves from the disease or sickness. The best way to approach the situation is just to be direct when telling them. They may already know something is not right, either by realizing you have symptoms or because they know you have visited the doctor.

Chances are, there are embarrassing problems they have now or will experience one day, and by being open with them and communicating, you will be making it easier for them to share their issues with you in the future. In some cases, they may even have advice or be able to help ease your pain or discomfort. They may have concerns about you realizing there is a problem, so if they know you are dealing with it and speaking with a doctor, the issue should actually be less embarrassing for both of you. Once everything is out in the open, it will be easier for both of you to communicate, and chances are, it will bring you closer together. They will admire you for your bravery and self respect; instead of thinking you are scared or unaware of the problem. It is important for you to care for yourself and your health, and the best way to do that is to deal with problems openly and honestly. If you are facing an embarrassing medical problem, speak with your doctor as soon as possible to find a solution to your medical issue.

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greg asked:


Folks,i am now a by-force quiet person.I dont want to make friends,go on relationships,find it had coping with my cashier job,mostly with this ununderstandable bad breath am facing.I practice the best oral hygiene,scrap,brush,rinse my tongue even with acclaimed products like Dr Katz’s but whenever i stop or even in the afternoon,i realise my breath has become offensive.I just dont know what to do.With my oral hygiene practice,i personally give myself A++++++,and also my diet to.I visited an ENT specialise who checked on me,but strangely that day i went for consultation it didnt show up.Now what do i do?I want to try this so-called bad breath specialist,but my question is what actually does a bad breath specialist do that is different from an ENT specialist.Also,am scared of the bill that i may be slapped with because am uninsured,what can do or could consulting this type of specialist be so expensive?I need rapid advice to help eradicate this problem once and for all.

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Anxiety has become a common problem in this stressful modern life-style. Yet coping with anxiety is easy if you follow some strategies.

Coping with anxiety is very simple if you can identify whether your fight-or-flight situation is real or perceived danger.

Most often, a bad situation or an incident might create stress or mild anxiety. But your negative thinking and imagination worsens the situation. So you must be able to separate real risks and dangers from your mind projected negative thinking.

So after knowing the real problems, control the things which you can and accept the things which you can’t do anything about them.

If a certain situation can be brought under control, then think what to do and how to do it. Other wise, you should accept it and be patient with the things moving. It’s not pessimism. You will realize its power slowly.

If you want to cope with anxiety successfully, follow these two important methods…

Challenge Your Negative Thoughts

Observe your thought flow because they are responsible for your anxiety. if you are thinking negatively about a situation or incident, ask your self some questions. For example, is it a productive thought? Am I thinking correct? Use your common sense and logic to differentiate your negative approach. It’s important to do to cope with anxiety.

Try to imagine and visualize positively instead of being paralyzed with anxiety.

Learn to relax

Learning to relax is essential for coping with anxiety. Doing exercise is an excellent outlet for your anxiety. Do yoga, meditation and breathing exercises.

Whenever you feel anxiety, hold your breath for a few seconds. And also learn how to breath properly (diaphragmatic breathing). This works for you because it calms your nervous system.

Having sense of humor also helps a lot in coping with anxiety. Find time to tell a joke or to watch a comedy. And don’t forget to keep a smile on your face. If you maintain a joyful atmosphere around you, your mind releases endorphins which induce calmness in mind and body.

Finally, never think negatively and worry about anything. It doesn’t help solving the problem. Look at the problem or situation from the positive dimension. Then coping with anxiety is very easy.

If you follow these methods, you will definitely win over anxiety.

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This is me asked:


Okay so we only dated three months but before those three months I dated this other guy for two years. He broke my heart but then this other guy came in and helped me deal with it. So I fell for him harder than I’ve ever fallen with anyone. He told me he could never **** me, I’m the one for him, he will never break up with me and I meant the world to him. I guess he lied. Friday I went to the movies with a girl friend and just so happened some guy friends were there too. We hung out with them and then I told my boyfriend everything. He broke up with me and two secounds later he started dating this other girl. I’ve apologized but he hates me, calls me ugly, rubs in his new relationship, and tells her the same things he told me. I’ve got the feeling you get when you acidently fall and it knocks the breath out of you. I haven’t ate in two days, I cry myself to sleep, and I constantly feel like there’s a knot in my stomach and my heart has ruptured.
Was it right for him to break up with me?
Should I be this heart broken?
Advice/tips?
Just help me.

Wyatt’s mama asked:


(please respond only if you’ve had panic attacks or you are in the medical field)

I have been having panic attacks for about a month now. I wasn’t sure what it was a first but as it has gotten worse I’m now certain this is what I’m experiencing. I’m also a breastfeeding mom to a 5 month old. The attacks are getting very frightening, I feel like I can’t breath, I’m dizzy, I feel like I’m going to die. they are lasting longer and longer. I have anyone to sit down with or call. All I have is my 5 month old. I often have to sit him down because I’m afraid I’ll pass out or have a heart attack holding him and he’ll get hurt. I’m embarrased about this. When it happens around people I feel like a complete idiot but no one can even tell anythings wrong. I cannot see my doctor for 2 1/2 weeks.
What do I do? I’m ashamed, terrified, feel like I’m losing control. I tried talking myself through it and breathing normally. But as I’m telling myself it’s just a panic attack I’m ok, I realize it’s not getting better and panic worse. I breath slowly then feel like I’m not breathing fast enough..

Please help! Like I said it’ll be 2 1/2 weeks before I can see a doctor.
I meant I DON’T have anyone to sit down with or call.

melissa25b asked:


For the past year, I have been experiencing nasal congestion and mucus problems. I always wake up with a stuffy nose. My throat is extremely sore, almost a burning sensation and I have to clear it every 5 minutes. This mucus also causes bad breath.

When it first started, I went to a walk-in clinic. They told me I had a sinus infection, prescribed me some Nasonex and sent me on my way. While the Nasonex alleviated the symptoms a little, the relief was on temporary. All the symptoms came back within 6 weeks. I went back to the clinic and they gave me more Nasonex, some Rhynaris and referred me to a ENT. The ENT doctor told me it might be allergies so he sent me to get an allergy test and told me to come back. I got the allergy tests (they tested me for 27 things but not food allergies) and it turns out I am not allergic to anything. The allergist said I had chronic rhinitis and prescribed me with another type of nasal spray and some Claritin Extra.
I now have to go back to the ENT.

I have done some reading online and I discovered that dairy may be the cause of this. Can this be? Could I be allergic to dairy and the nasal congestion is the allergic reaction I am having?

Please help!!!! If you have experienced anything like this, please share tips on how to treat this or how you coped.

I feel like I’m running out of options and no doctor is going to be able to help me. This is causing an extreme disturbance in my life…

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Emo Child asked:


I was in the mall one day and I started freaking out that I was guna get locked in and I started freaking out and crying and I couldn’t breath. Also whenever an ambulance passes me or I see one I get chest pains and start to hyperventalate. Also when I see silent police lights I start to get upset and dizzy. How when these things happen how can I get over these problems, and is this anexiety or something worse? I need good answers because this is serious to me and it stresses me,